A few month back an ex-neighbor of my sent me an email. His name is Sam, he got this pretty, and friendly wife (Susan) which always cannot stop smiling. Now they have move out to a bigger and more luxurious apartment. Sam has always been my idol because he seems to have everything in life. He got his wife Susan, two bright children, a girl and a boy, a good job with a big income and a good career too. Sam and I have been keeping in touch since a couple month back when Sam got this big promotion and he is always going abroad. Because of that, we rarely met but we still emailed each other.
When I open the email today, Sam wrote me many things about how busy he was lately as the company is going through big merger and all the staff is working extra hard. He apologizes for not being in touch. In the email, Sam actually needs a favor from me. He told me about one of his colleague named Ana.
Ana is one of the top executive CEO at the office and is a very looked up person in the company. However, lately Ana have been acting strange, she keeps to herself, seldom talk and she always look tired. People around her say that Ana is like a different person and they are worried about her performance as she is one of the most reliable person in the big merger.
Anyway, one day Sam asked Rose, one of the staff at the office, to talk to Ana and luckily, she was able to have a sincere talk with Ana. She found out that Ana was not sick. Ana was just not having enough sleep. In addition, the reason that she was not getting enough sleep was that she herself was not allowing it. Ana was afraid to fall asleep because she did not want to have the same nightmare she had a few nights before.
At first, she was reluctant to talk about her dream, but after lots of persuasion, at last she agreed to talk about her dream. Ana said that in her nightmare she was having sexual relations with her own father. She felt so disgusted and humiliated because of the nightmare that she decided not to sleep because this is the second time she had this nightmare.
Ana told Rose the first time she had the nightmare was long ago when she was still single and was living in London while taking her masters degree. It is a good thing too that she had it after she had graduated because she was stressed out that time. It took her about three months to recover from the shock. Ana told Rose that she might have been able to forget it because she was still young and thought nothing of it and that she had a boyfriend to cheer her up. Now though, she has a husband and children of her own, until she really cannot stop thinking about it and that the nightmare really disgusted her. Rose really do not want to tell Sam of what she know but as Sam was sincere enough in helping Ana she decided to tell it to Sam with good intention.
So I decided to help interpret Ana’s dream, I explained to Sam although it seems disgusting and the humiliation to the daughter, it is perfectly natural to feel that way, after all that is her father. I know of one case when the daughter ran away from home, hated the father and try to commit suicide. It is actually not fair for the father, as he had done nothing to deserve it.
Actually, in the dream world when a daughter has sex with her father it is actually a good sign. Just tell Ana that it is normal how she reacted to the dream, but the dream is telling her that she will be highly regarded by the senior generation. In her case, maybe the merger and all the related stuff will have to do with the dream. She will have the support of many senior staff especially by the men. It also means that her she will be very successful and will have a bright career. She shouldn't be ashamed of herself. She should call or visit her father and tell him how much she adores him. Her dream is telling her how much he cares and that he will always be there to support her.
I do hope Ana feels much better and I do hope she can get through this
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